"WE, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children. . . .
WE DECLARE the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan.to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children. . . .
THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. . . .
By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners." (The Family: A Proclamation to the World)
Here are a few excerpts from The Family: A Proclamation to the World. This inspired document was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley at the General Relief Society Meeting in September 1995, nearly 20 years ago! And I think it is easy to see that this document full of true principles, stated with boldness and clarity, is vital. Perhaps we need it more now than ever before.
Our family has been working for years to memorize the entire Proclamation. Over the last few weeks, since the Supreme Court decision, I have had the words of the proclamation floating through my head, giving me strength, and reminding me what is true. It helps me to remember that we can build strong families even when the world is in turmoil.
After the Supreme Court decision we sat down and had a family council. We explained to the kids what had happened. We talked about how God's law is firm, no matter what man may say. We talked about the confusion that surrounds us, but how we can know truth. We reminded our kids that God's law states that marriage is between a man and woman. We asked them how we know this, and they all pointed to the wall, where a copy of the Proclamation hangs.
A few days later we listened to the last verse of Follow the Prophet.
Now we have a world where people are confused.
If you don't believe it, go and watch the news.
We can get direction all along our way,
If we heed the prophets-follow what they say.
Afterwards Megan said, "Our world is confused. They think it is OK for two men to get married or two women. The prophet teaches us what is right." I was grateful that she knows where to turn when things are confusing.
Another part of our conversation with our kids was that we need to be kind and respectful to others, no matter there choices or opinions. We can, in fact, be firm in our standards and still reach out with love, kindness and concern for those around us. I am so grateful for the example of the Savior. He was also firm and never condoned sin, yet he always showed love, care and compassion for the individual. It is possible.
I am grateful that we have truth from the Lord to anchor us in this world of storm and turmoil. I am grateful for the hope that I receive, that it is possible to raise children who will be firm in the faith.
